Today’s my birthday and I can’t help but think about the journey that’s led me to this point.
🎂 I Brought a House with a Stranger at 18
It’s been 33 years since I bought my first investment property.
I was 18.
Eighteen.
Most people at 18 are figuring out what to wear to a party.
I was figuring out how to buy a house. With a man I’d met twice… and his mate I’d never met at all.
LESSONS:
👉 Building wealth is a long game.
👉 The sooner you start, the further ahead you’ll be.
The $5,000 House
A lovely older couple in Brisbane wanted to knock down their family home and build two new ones – one for them, one for their son and grandson.
So I teamed up with a friend of my dad’s and one of his mates – and we bought the house.
For less than $5,000.
Not the land… just the house.
Then we trucked it out to Forest Hill, near Gatton Uni, and turned it into a rental for students.
At 18.
Looking back…
That one decision didn’t just buy me a property.
LESSONS:
👉 It bought me a path.
👉 It bought me confidence.
👉 It showed me what was possible.
💸 12 Years Later…
I held that property for 12 years.
Then sold it.
And more than doubled my money.
At the time, I thought I was pretty clever.
(Spoiler: I was just getting started.)
LESSONS:
👉 Time did the heavy lifting.
👉 The market rewards patience, not panic.
👉 The magic is in holding, not flipping.
🇬🇧 The London Chapter (a.k.a. What Could Possibly Go Wrong?!)
Fast forward. I’m living in London.
I accidentally adopted a Jack Russell.
My one-bedroom flat in Greenwich suddenly didn’t cut it.
I sold it and bought a 150-year-old house instead. With a garden.
What could possibly go wrong?
A dog
A renovation
In a foreign country
With a tight budget
I got myself into a bit of financial strife…
£28k budget turned into £100k.
I created a beautiful home, and while the GFC left me with serious debt, it also taught me some of my greatest financial lessons.
LESSONS:
👉 You can always rebuild.
👉 Financial discipline creates freedom.
👉 Timing isn’t everything – resilience is.
🏘️ The Rentvesting Strategy
I landed back in Australia on Christmas Eve 2008.
The GFC was in full swing.
I took a role in a property investment company in Brisbane and slowly cleaned up the financial mess from London.
Once I got back on my feet, I wanted back in.
But here’s the thing:
As a single woman at the time, on a $55k salary I couldn’t afford a home loan on my own.
I bought a duplex on Brisbane’s south side.
Why I loved it:
- Rental income helped cover the mortgage
- Tax benefits improved cash flow
- Less pressure, more control
Then a few months later…
I bought another one on the north side.
I targeted an area where a train line was planned.
Not built yet.
Not even approved.
But I knew:
👉 Infrastructure drives growth.
That area? Mango Hill.
Today? Two train stations.
(Always nice when the plan works out.)
LESSONS:
👉 There’s always a way – you just need the right strategy.
👉 Think ahead of the market – the best opportunities are often before everyone else sees them.
👉 Don’t wait for the perfect situation – work with what you have now.
🏡 When Life Outgrows Your Plans
Next, I bought a 3-bedroom home in Balmoral. Walking distance to Oxford Street in Bulimba.
Time to start a family but it wasn’t one baby.
It was three.
Triplets.
Because apparently, I don’t do things in halves.
That beautiful home?
Suddenly not so practical.
- Sloping block
- No backyard
- Three tiny humans with energy levels of caffeinated squirrels
So, we turned it into a rental and rented ourselves a bigger place to live for the next 6 years.
LESSONS:
👉 Your strategy has to adapt as life does.
👉 What got you here won’t always get you there.
👉 Adapt quickly or feel it slowly.
🏠 The Dream Home (and a Tough Decision)
More recently, I sold Balmoral and I bought my dream home. And honestly, it was a challenging decision.
Because I’m a big believer in:
👉 Good debt (investment debt)
👉 Leverage
👉 Using someone else’s money (the banks) to create more money
And this?
A mortgage with no tax deductions.
A different kind of responsibility.
But it gives me stability. No landlord, no limitations – it’s my space, exactly how I want it, with the freedom to change anything. And with young kids, having just started school that was important for me.
And naturally, I still made a smart move. I bought in an area that’s doubled in value over the last 5 years, with significant growth expected. With 15 developments happening within a 2-minute radius, the fundamentals are strong.
LESSONS:
👉 There are 3 kinds of debt – good, bad & ok debt
👉 Good debt opens doors – when leveraged well, it accelerates wealth creation.
👉 Always use someone else’s money to build wealth.
💡 So What Have I Learned in my 51 Years?
- Your first deal may not be comfortable. Do it anyway.
- You don’t need to know everything to start.
- Start before you feel ready.
- Action beats overthinking.
- Property is a long game.
- Time IN the market beats timing the market.
- Stay in the game.
- Wealth is built over decades, not months.
- Small decisions compound.
- Big decisions shape direction.
- You will make mistakes going it alone.
- You don’t need to do it alone.
- Surround yourself with the right people.
- The right advice changes everything.
- The wrong advice costs years.
- ‘I’ve met him twice’ is not due diligence 😊
- Leverage is VERY powerful.
- Debt isn’t bad. Bad debt is bad.
- Good debt builds wealth.
- Debt can be a tool – or a trap. Learn the difference.
- Infrastructure drives growth.
- Follow the train lines (seriously).
- Buy where people want to live.
- Diversification isn’t just for shares.
- Property cycles are real.
- The GFC didn’t kill property. It created opportunity.
- Fear in the market = opportunity for the brave.
- Fear often shows up right before growth.
- Luck favours action.
- Waiting for certainty is expensive.
- Momentum beats perfection and creates opportunity.
- Confidence comes from doing, not thinking.
- Growth happens outside your comfort zone.
- Resilience is built through challenges.
- Your strategy should match your stage of life.
- Life will change your plans – and that’s okay.
- Flexibility is a superpower.
- Homes and investments serve different purposes.
- Don’t let emotion lead the deal.
- Rentvesting is underrated.
- Property is simple… but not easy.
- Play the long game.
- Dogs influence property decisions more than logic.
- Your biggest asset is your ability to keep going.
- Back yourself.
- You are more capable than you think.
- Progress beats perfection.
- Consistency beats chasing the next shiny thing.
- The longer you stay in, the easier it gets.
- Starting early? That changes everything.
- Help is given to those who ask.
🎉 Final Thought
If there’s one thing I know for sure after 33 years of investing, it’s this:
👉 You don’t need the perfect plan.
👉 You don’t need perfect timing.
👉 You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You just need to start. OR continue.
It’s worth it.
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